It’s my experience
Posted by Tara Landon on 10/21/2009
Hey!!!
I’m Jen, 26yrs old
I would like to comment on this topic due to being a in relationship that has lasted for 5yrs now and we are due to get married Oct 2010.
So I thought I could share what I believe are GREEN flags in a relationship to let you ladies have a better idea if your relationship will turn out like mine!! 
Just a few things at the beginning of the relationship:
- when he talks about you to strangers/other women
- when he goes out of his way to do anything for you, like picking up tampons at shoppers
- doing cute little things for you on holidays other than a gift or even something simple like leaving a note at your place one morning to tell you how much he appreciates you
- stays over night to take care of you when your sick
- when you hear from his mom that he told her you were the one, only after dating for a few months (this will probably only happen depending on how close he is with his mom)
- HE is the one that tells you he loves you for the first time and keeps saying it through out your relationship, not a one time thing
So there are a few things that my fiance (30yrs old) has done for me.
I have a lot to go by considering I have dated my share of men and let me tell you that I can’t say either of my past boyfriends ever did any of these things.
It takes a lot sometime to “find” that special one but as I’m sure you have heard many times before, it will only happen when you least expected to!
GOOD MEN DO EXIST, their not all assholes. Think of it this way unless you date and go threw different kind of guys, how will you know what you want and don’t’ want in one!
Thanks for reading!! Hope it helps!
Take care and good luck ladies!!
xox
A secial thanks goes out to Jenlytle for submitting this post.
John said,
Ladies,thanks for posting your atta-boys on this list. I am telling my male dating clients to look and learn what is important to women. It amazes how men’s and women’s emotional needs compliment each other.
When men really care about the woman they are with, they want to be useful and engaged. They want to share their hopes and desires, their wins and their losses. If there is anything my guys miss it is being the focus of a woman they want and admire. Our narcissistic media with its “take what you can get” message promotes the perfect way to fail miserably at dating and in relationships. Doing what you think you can get away with to get more than you deserve. Slobs, liars, drunks and users always look for someone gullible to make them feel better about them selves and run when they are discovered for what they are. Winners have fun at what ever they do, you can feel it all around them. Winners know how their actions will effect those close to them and don’t screw things up. Winners make the best choice and then do what ever it takes to make things better.
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