The Big 3 “I LOVE YOU”
Posted by Tara Landon on 12/14/2009
Those three little words… “I Love You” can be so huge and such a turning point in a relationship. But when is a good time to say it? I have some girlfriends that still haven’t said it and they’ve been dating the guys for about 11 months now… shouldn’t a person know by then? As well, I am a firm believer that the guy should say it first… but I can also see that you should be honest about your feelings and if the woman feels that way she should say it too. Any thoughts?
Cheryl Anne said,
Honestly, who knows the answer to this? I would say just wait for him to say it… until you think he is taking way too long. Then pull the “where is this relationship going?” card and make him think about it for a while. Maybe he just really hasn’t considered that question before. Then he might say those BIG THREE WORDS.
T.O. Princess said,
I believe you should say it whenever you feel it. People are so quick to say “I love you” that it has lost a lot of it’s value
SweetiePie said,
I don’t believe you should say “I Love You” without meaning it. So many people I know say it to soon and in the end find out they don’t mean it. I love you is three strong words when put together but not as much as it should be. In the end the listener has to judge if it is meant or not. No one should be to quick to say this untill they are certain of their feelings towards another.
SweetiePie said,
But i do have a quick question! I have been dating my man for almost two years now and I do love him and he does love me. We discovered this a year into our relationship but now after two years of dating we get into a fight about how he treats me. So I came out and said “Do you love me?” and his response was ” I do love you but…” I don’t know what to think. In my mind the but shouldnt have been there.
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