Crazy

Posted by Jen on 02/05/2010

So I started dating this guy who I had met threw pretty good resources. We had partied a few times together and I really thought that this guy was pretty cool. So we started dating….

A couple of weeks had gone by and I started to feel that he was a little clingy. I let that pass! (Red flag #1) By this point he was spending nights at my place and I would get up to go to work and he would spend the day at my place later to find out that he was looking at porn on MY COMPUTER. I would start to get these pop-ups of half nude girls and well I put two and two together, along with a couple of viruses. (Red Flag #2)

By this time we had been dating maybe about a month and a half and I was just getting these gut feelings that this guy was WEIRD! So anyways of course I didn’t listen to this gut feels and kept dating him. Well one weekend I had a girlfriend up for the night and we wanted to just chill and hang out, have a girls night. Of course my guy wasn’t happy with this; he wanted me to go out to party. The girl night was a blast of course and we decided to hit the hay. Well sure enough at 4am I get a bang on my door, well scared the living day lights out of my girlfriend and I. Sure enough it was my guy, at the door wanting to spend the night. Well after about a half hr of arguing and explaining why he couldn’t, I slammed the door in his face. Well didn’t he stand there for about an hr banging wanting in and we just tried to ignore him . Well not long after the bagging stop, did the fire alarm to my building go off. I couldn’t imagine who that could have been. Well talk about red flag #3 and 4 in one night. The next day he called to apologize and boy let me tell you it wasn’t a nice break up! I am sure happy I broke up with him too cause not only did he show up that night at 3am with Wendy’s for the 2 of us, I found out that he was into a hard drug that I sure did NOT approve of. Explains the crazy visits that’s for sure!