2 Red Flags-CONTEST ENTRY

Posted by melissakurz1 on 04/14/2010

I started dating a guy a couple of months back that I met on a dating site. He lied initially about smaller things like smoking or that he was divorced, and then I found out that he had a child from a previous relationship. I was however blinded by all of the sweet things that he was doing for me and the fact that he seemed so caring compared to the other bunch of jerks I had dated in the past. I finally thought to myself wow this is what its supposed to be like. The first red flag with him was that he didn’t want to sleep together. Now sometimes this really is just someone being respectful, or not being ready for the next step, etc but when you’ve been dating someone for a couple of months and they still don’t want to sleep together they are either getting it from someone else or there is something wrong! The second red flag was when I found out he was still on the dating site that I had met him on. I called him on this and he swore up and down his profile would be deleted….however it wasn’t. At the end of the day I had to evaluate whether this was someone I trusted or not, and although I was falling for him because of his sweetness and kind and caring nature towards me, my gut instincts said something was wrong and turns out I was right! Red Flag #1- He doesn’t want to sleep with you! Red Flag #2- He is still active on the dating site you met him on! Moral of the story- Trust your gut instincts!!!

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