Posted by admin on 08/27/2011
Oksana Grigorieva didn’t take abuse from Mel Gibson. She decided to leave and take their one year old daughter with her. Although it was an ugly and public breakup, she made the brave choice to end it. Today she finally had resolution as the two came to a legal settlement. Now Oksana can move on with her life, without worrying about an abusive boyfriend hurting her or her child. Read more here.
Posted by admin on 01/13/2011
Are you dating too many bad boys? Check out why nice guys are better for you in the longer run and why bad boys lose their charms, click here.
Posted by admin on 11/22/2010
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Posted by admin on 11/15/2010
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Posted by PatBray on 11/06/2010
He started out overly sweet & loving, sensitive & attentive & very sincere. We weren’t kids, I was 50 he was 55. He was a Christian, and I wondered where he’d been all my life? Then it all turned around. He became very needy, more possessive, jealous (of the dog & my friends), I couldn’t keep up. Then after we were married about a year & a half, he went another direction… excessive golf, TV, work & overtime, coming home late, lying and getting caught, and being less attentive. Red Flags everywhere! Then he moved out… “to find himself”! Found out later from his ex wife that he was doing her and others and at the same time(she proved it), & he was telling me “I want to be the man you deserve to be married to”. We were married 2 1/2 yrs. I feel betrayed, used, and like a total loser with no intuition.
Where I am now? Angry, bitter, hurting, & lacking trust. Yes that’s where I was. I have moved forward, and am still working towards healing myself.
I’m still not ready to trust but have a bit of advice to offer. If he seems to good to be true, then he probably is. Take it very slow. Date him forever if you think you love him, the honeymoon will last longer. Ask the Ex if you are able, to tell you what kind of husband he was? Pat
Posted by Cheryl Anne on 08/24/2010
Hi Lovable992,
Some questions for you. How long have you two been friend? Were you friends before the relationship? Do either of you have feelings for the other one? Have you tried being friends with his girlfriend?
Let me know and we will figure out an answer for you.
Cheryl Anne
Posted by lovable992 on
I have a guy friend who has a girlfriend…We have started hanging out and stuff…Nothing at all has happened. We stopped talking for about 6 months because his GF found out we were hanging out. I seen him for the first time this weekend, and now he is back to messaging me…saying that he misses me and other things…what does this mean???
Posted by joblack23 on 06/08/2010
I started dating this guy that I had a crush on for YEARS. I was mad for him before we even wen ton our first date, and that first date was incredible.Our second date, he starts asking me questions like “How many people have you slept with?” and i was taken aback. On a second date? have we reached that point yet? I really liked this guy, so i sat there and took a moment to process it. The i thought, hmm, better lie. B/c if he’s asking me, i have DEFINITELY slept with more poeple than him. But instead of lying well, I lie badly and say I don’t know, I’d have to count and luagh it off, hoping he’d let it go. Dates 3 and 4 went the same. We had a great time otherwise, but he would just not let this go. So i say what am i supposed to do, sit here and count? And he says “Yeah. Start counting”. So then I get angy. Who the eff is this guy and what exactly does he think of me that I need to start counting. That i need to share that personal info with him? We haven’t even dated a month. So, after copious amounts of drinking, i got angry and got into an argument with him and let him leave. Then called him and apologized and had him come back. Apparently, this bothered him for a week or two b/c one night I had a bit of an emotional set back and met a friend of mine for a drink. When I toldl him this, he assumed I was sleeping around and ended our dating.Now I ask you- other than possibly having a few too many, what exactly did i do wrong? B/c I didn’t want to share personal info so soon? B/c when he refused to let it go, I got upset? When I wanted a bit of space, he assumed I was sleeping around? Is that not a red flag for him being immature and insecure?!
Posted by lindseyrd84 on
My red flag rule is “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” I have constantly been the one berading my friends with “Don’t you dare give him a second chance! He’ll just do it again!” Well that was until I found myself in the unfortunate sticky situation. Long story short, I started dating this guy and a few months into dating (and becoming quite serious) he admitted to me that he had cheated on his ex gf with a girl he met on a business trip. He told me in an Oscar-worthy performance that he had learned a valuable lesson and that he never wanted to make another girl feel the way his ex felt when she found out. I figured maybe the guy really truly did learn a lesson. (Even against my better judgement…) Fast forward a year and a half. I end up finding out that 6 months into being a legit, full-fledged, I-love-you-saying, supercouple, he had in fact “made out” with some rando girl on a guys trip to Vegas. Maybe there are a couple men out there that really have learned lessons and will never cheat again. But until hell freezes over, I’m going to stick with my red flag rule.
Posted by SweetiePie on 02/07/2010
Hello,
I am nineteen and I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for two years this march but I am having a little trouble deciding if I want to continue with this relationship or not. My story is I have been ignoring this for months so now it has built up so bad, that now I don’t know what I want anymore. I love this guy to death and am pretty sure he loves me back. The thing is there are situations happening that I don’t exactly like, not that I want to complain. A little background you may need to know before giving advise is we became a long distance relationship 10 months into our relationship. anyway the things that have been bothering me are;
1. When we fight and it seems to be often lately he gets so angry, like it sounds like there is so much hate in his voice that it kind of scares me.
2. He has to have the last word in every fight and if I state my opinion he usually hangs up the phone on me.
3. He never wants to talk about whats wrong he is always like we will talk about it later, which I would understand you know to cool off and calm down but when the next day comes he says it’s over with why do we need to talk about it now. And gets angry again.
4. He gets so judgemental of people I hang out with, guys or girls. And if we fight he gets mad when I talk to my bestfriend about it.
5. I have been accused of cheating on him or checking out his friends.
6. In my opinion he talks down to me like he is better then me.
7. Money means a lot to him, kind of more then me or at least thats how it seems. And he always thinks that since he buys me stuff, everything is good. but I have told him over and over that I’m not that kind of girl I don’t care about all this fancy stuff and if I had to choose between the items and affection it would not be the items he buys me.
8. We have talked about our future and he wants me to move like days away from my family which i don’t think I could do. (I think we have been believing we are going to change each others mind on that one).
9. The other day we got into a fight and started discussing our realationship and he said two things I didn’t like hearing; one was “If you want to go on a break or break up or anything, then it’s over.” and then the other was, I asked him if he love me and he said “I Love You but… ” like come on whats that.
Now I am not sayin he is completely a bad guy because he’s not. And I love him to death and I know he loves me to a degreee. I’m just confuesd and I don’t know what I want to do. Now I am not sure if I can’t figure out what I want is because I love him and can’t seem to let him go or becuase I think I might be over thinking everything.
I know you can’t decide for me but please give me a little advice.
Signed Sweetie Pie
Posted by Tara Landon on 12/14/2009
Those three little words… “I Love You” can be so huge and such a turning point in a relationship. But when is a good time to say it? I have some girlfriends that still haven’t said it and they’ve been dating the guys for about 11 months now… shouldn’t a person know by then? As well, I am a firm believer that the guy should say it first… but I can also see that you should be honest about your feelings and if the woman feels that way she should say it too. Any thoughts?
Posted by Cheryl Anne on
I am the type of girl who genuinely doesn’t find a guy hot until I get to know him. If he has a great personality, then I start noticing the physically attractive features. Every once and a while I will be very infatuated with a guy but I don’t ever want to talk to him, because I know the moment he says something I will see that his personality isn’t great and I won’t find him attractive anymore. I call it “Knowing that your a Hot Guy” Syndrome. Does this happen to anyone else?
Posted by Tara Landon on 11/21/2009
I have this friend who is dating this guy who has done absolutely everything wrong that you could possibly do in a relationship. He’s verbally abusive, he has cheated on her, he has taken advantage of her financially, he lies to her all the time and just generally treats her like garbage 
. But SHE WONT BREAK UP WITH HIM 
!!! I don’t know what to do!? I can’t stand seeing her being treated that way but at the same time she won’t listen to me and still stays with him! I’m sure some of you ladies have gone through this too… any words of wisdom? 
A special thanks goes out to Gloria for submitting this post.
Posted by Cheryl Anne on 11/07/2009
It is so important when you meet your boyfriend’s parents that you do it in a way that you are all comfortable with (you, your boyfriend and his parents). I meet my (now ex) boyfriend’s mom when I came downstairs at his house and she was in the kitchen making pancakes. It would have been sweet except that I was wearing his shirt and a pair of his boxers. However, she didn’t want to make me think that she was uncomfortable with that so she walked up to me and said “I have heard so much about you.” I could tell right there and then that we were going to get along. LOL
A special thanks goes out to Cam for submitting this post.
Posted by Cheryl Anne on 10/29/2009
Every once and a while, I blow my lid from pent-up stress/pms and I feel bad because I usually have my hissy fit on my man. I think I do it with him because I feel comfortable enough for him to see me in that state but then I feel real bad afterward. Do you think I should try to keep that stress all inside and release it when I am alone or do you think he should see this side of me so that he really knows all of my little flaws?
Posted by Tara Landon on 10/21/2009
Hi girls! I recently went on a first date with a guy and I wasn’t super interested in him to begin with but I thought at least I’d give him a chance because you never know. So the date went fine, but I’m just not interested in him. He didn’t do anything wrong but I’m just not attracted to him and there isn’t that spark there . I’m really not interested in going out with him again but I’m finding it hard to tell him that because he’s nice and I don’t want to hurt his feelings. He keeps calling me to ask me out but I keep making excuses. Any advice?
Posted by Cheryl Anne on 10/14/2009
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