Posted by admin on 11/18/2010
Eva Longoria and Tony Parker are filing for divorce and the rumour was Tony was having a sexual relationship with Erin Barry (a former teammate’s estranged wife). He denies sex but does admit he was “sexting” with Mrs. Barry. Although a sexual relationship would obviously be cheating, would you consider sexting a form of cheating? Would you end a marriage if you found evidence of sexting? What is an appropriate punishment for a man who’s sexting another woman? We would kick him to the curb, but would you? See TMZ Article here.
Posted by nikole04 on 11/06/2010
So my number # rule would be if a guy talks about his mother then he is a mommy’s boy… Goodbye! i would not deal with that ever again…
Posted by _love_xo on 10/18/2010
I was in a 5 month relationship with the MOST insecure guy on earth! I met him on facebook and I thought he was pretty cool turns out he was just like the rest of the guys I went out with. The ONLY difference was this crazy person, didn’t allow me to go out with my friends, judges every single one of my friends, saying their a bad influence when he’s never met them before. He doesnt wanna have a good time, he doesnt want me to go clubbin but in turn he goes and clubs with his friends. He called me a bitch, slut, cunt, hoe, and anything else you can think of that is hurtful. When all I did was, well nothing. The things he said to me were so degrading and just straight low, I rather get punched in the face then having to hear him say that bs.
My rule: “When a guy doesnt treat you right or calls you a bitch, slut, whore etc. Leave. You don’t deserve it and it’s his loss for losing the best girl/woman he has ever had.”
Posted by admin on 08/30/2010
When your man would rather spend time with his dog than you. Taking his dog camping with him and on a road trip are definite signs he is just not that into you.
Posted by pwinstanley on
When I guy continually keeps telling you who he is rather then leting you get to know him in time. Especially since he is not the guy he thinks he is…
Posted by tmreashore on
Pretty basic…
If he doesn’t want to introduce you to his friends. Either he has something to hide or he thinks you’re not going to be around for long, either way he’s an ass and needs to be kicked to the curb!
Posted by cinnamongirl on 08/23/2010
I think it’s doomed from the word go, if he can’t leave the house because he wants to spend every waking moment groping and kissing. Doesn’t leave much time for outside activities! Also, if he watched you cook dinner and then proceeds to watch you clean up afterward, not a good sign of things to come.
Posted by admin on
Exclusively dating for a period of time and he still does not introduce you to his friends/family and-or not interested in meeting yours…big red flag that this relationship is going no where fast!
Posted by tsharlyn on
I dated and fell in love with a man who I would later discover, after I married him, was that he is an abusive jerk. The red flag I missed was his need to control and make all the decisions like where we would go, what we would do, who we would see, what color the house would be. That is the price I paid for falling in love at 15.
Posted by tgrlvr on 07/19/2010
My best Red Flag Rule is always, always follow your gut instinct. We all have it but sometimes we choose to ignore it. If you have a wall put up it’s for a good reason.
Posted by mstrang on 05/18/2010
Red flag! When he picks his toys over you. In my past relationship, that lasted over 3 years. My man could not think of anything better to do then play with his toys (dirt bike, trucks…etc.) If I were him, I am sure I could have fill my time better…lol. I guess he was just not that into me!
Posted by admin on 05/07/2010
When your guy still uses the same cereal bowl that he had in childhood, or doesn’t lift the toilet seat to pee (leaving you with a wet bum the next time you go), it is sign that he missed some important developmental steps in childhood and is a major red flag.
Posted by Sharlanne on
There was once a time when I used to be accused of being too picky or fickle when dating. In turn, I would stress about not ever being happy in a relationship and even contemplated relaxing my high standards. What I did instead was take a job where I travelled around the world, met tons of new people, SO many men, and really appreciated how amazing some men can be. There’s really something about Toronto men that raises all kinds of “red flags”! Although it is home in Toronto where I met my man, he’s from South Western Ontario, and we share a passion for travel and adventure. We both want to live abroad, which is so hard to find in a man. It’s my experience, and of so many of my friends, that men want to be the ones who travel for work, and have their partners stay at home! I think it’s insecurity that makes them that way, and that is my biggest red flag: Insecurity!
Posted by Drgnfly1971 on 04/21/2010
If a man tells you he is in love with you, or falling in love with you within the first few weeks or even a month of dating, beware! This man is extremely insecure, and sees you as the key to his happiness. If you wait to long to end this type of relationship you are only asking for problems. Declaring true love so soon is probably hiding a clingy, possessive, and controlling man. End this relationship immediately.
Posted by leblaje on 04/14/2010
I went on a first date with a guy who used a 2 for 1 coupon at the movies and still expected me to pay 1/2!!! I DON”T THINK SO!!!
Posted by melissakurz1 on
I started dating a guy a couple of months back that I met on a dating site. He lied initially about smaller things like smoking or that he was divorced, and then I found out that he had a child from a previous relationship. I was however blinded by all of the sweet things that he was doing for me and the fact that he seemed so caring compared to the other bunch of jerks I had dated in the past. I finally thought to myself wow this is what its supposed to be like. The first red flag with him was that he didn’t want to sleep together. Now sometimes this really is just someone being respectful, or not being ready for the next step, etc but when you’ve been dating someone for a couple of months and they still don’t want to sleep together they are either getting it from someone else or there is something wrong! The second red flag was when I found out he was still on the dating site that I had met him on. I called him on this and he swore up and down his profile would be deleted….however it wasn’t. At the end of the day I had to evaluate whether this was someone I trusted or not, and although I was falling for him because of his sweetness and kind and caring nature towards me, my gut instincts said something was wrong and turns out I was right! Red Flag #1- He doesn’t want to sleep with you! Red Flag #2- He is still active on the dating site you met him on! Moral of the story- Trust your gut instincts!!!
Posted by admin on 02/09/2010
The biggest red flag for me is when a guy says “I Love You but …..”, may only be my opinion but there shouldn’t be a but after I Love You.
Posted by admin on 02/05/2010
A huge red flag for me is a man who has been married before(or any long-term relationship) and has nothing good to say about his ex. Don’t forget that if/when you ever break up with the man then you will be the woman who he is then speaking badly about. Better to forget a guy like that and sooner the better!
Posted by hiromi on
It must have been the sexy British accent that caught my attention. See, I’ve always been attracted to a specific type of guy; tall, blond, blue-eyed, and athletic. I didn’t even glimpse at anyone else if he didn’t fall under that category.
One summer when I was visiting my parents in Germany, I met a guy who I instantly thought looked weird. He was short (taller than I am, but too short for me!), red hair, big ears, and big brown eyes. But when he opened his mouth, he had the sexiest voice and most beautifully pronounced British accent. I didn’t think anything of it and enjoyed talking to him to hear his lovely voice, but the more conversations we had at our local coffee shop, the more attracted to him I’ve become. “How strange, he doesn’t fall under my category!” I thought. But I couldn’t help falling for him.
Our local coffee shop outings eventually turned into dates, and the next thing I knew I was introducing him to my parents. My father didn’t like anything about him; his beautiful accent, his background, his financial status (he said that we were in “different worlds”), his red hair and many many more. I got really annoyed at my father and decided to follow my heart.
After that summer, we decided to try a long distance relationship where he was in the UK and I was in the US. The hardest part wasn’t trying to keep our relationship fresh over the phone (as he had that beautiful voice!), but much rather getting my father’s approval! He hated him more and more, and said that there is something different about him in a bad way that he simply doesn’t trust. The more dedicated I became to move back to Europe when I’m done with school, the more furious my father became. He, then, made an ultimatum and said that I would have to choose either my boyfriend or my father, otherwise he would stop talking to me and cut all financial support. I thought it was just an evil threat and that he’ll get over it, but it escalated to a point where I was struggling financially. At that point, I didn’t really have much of a choice as I didn’t have a job and needed to finish university, so I made that depressing phone call to my boyfriend and told him that I can’t be with him anymore. I was furious at my father, and thought it was extremely unfair of him. I refused to talk to him.
My ex and I stopped talking that day forwards, and I found a guy, who fit into my category, within a few months after the ugly breakup. Now nearly 3 years later, I decided to investigate on what he’s been up to. He’s not on Facebook nor is he appearing on Google search, so I asked some of his friends that I met back in the day. They were surprised to hear from me, but I was even more surprised to hear that he got involved with drugs and criminal activity and was put in jail about a year ago…! Thank god my father talked me out of the relationship, otherwise I might be sitting in that cell next to him! It’s scary how parents have that instinct feeling whether someone is right or not.
I guess I should always follow my gut feeling, always go for the guys who fit in my category!
Thanks Tara & Cheryl for your book!
Posted by Cheryl Anne on 12/14/2009
Hi Ladies,
Men who feel the need to tell you repeatedly that they are attracted to you because of your…[fill in the body part, feature].
It is a compliment to be told that you have an attractive [xxx] but when it gets to the point that they only talk about that feature…well……..ENOUGH already.
Does anyone else get turned off by that?
A special thanks to Sparky for submitting this post.
Tony Parker Sexting another woman, still cheating?
